Kitchen Table Poly: When Everyone Knows Everyone—and Why That Matters to Me
TikTok video from 2022-02-18
Dirt? You want dirt? Go for it.
Honestly, as long as everyone involved is communicating openly and behaving ethically, I say: have at it. Explore. Say yes to the curiosity. Say yes to the pleasure. Because what I’ve learned is this—exploring my sensuality and sexuality has been the most extraordinary adventure of my life.
And here’s the beautiful thing: there are no rules except the ones you make with the people you care about. For me, it’s not about following a script or sticking to any kind of mold. It’s about discovering what I like, what I don’t like, what excites me, what softens me, and what lights me up from the inside out.
When it comes to age? I don’t really have a bracket I stick to. Right now, it just so happens that most of the men I’m involved with are in their fifties. Sapio, Orion, and Luke—my boyfriend, my sidepiece, and my snowbird—are all living in that fabulously confident and sexy fifth decade of life.
That said, I’ve played with men in their forties too. And the oldest partner I’ve had? He was 64. The youngest was 27. So while the numbers vary, what matters most is the connection, the communication, the chemistry—and yes, the consent.
This journey isn’t about collecting stories (though, let’s be honest, there are some great stories). It’s about showing up fully in my body and my truth. And sharing that truth with others who are equally curious, open, and respectful.
So if you’re wondering whether it’s okay to explore, to play, to delight in your own desire - Yes! A thousand times yes. Just do it with heart, with honesty, and with a deep respect for everyone involved.
Because that’s where the real magic lives.
Curious about sensuality, age, and navigating ethical exploration? Let’s talk. The adventure is so worth it.
